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Welcome to Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy
Welcome to the official website for the upcoming e-book Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy. On this site you will find effective tips and techniques for acknowledging the source of your jealous feelings...
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Her past doesn’t matter — unless it does
The following is an excerpt from my upcoming guidebook, Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy, which I will release exclusively on this site in May: Chapter 2.) Her past doesn’t matter — unless it does. ....
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We are not who we think we are.
The following is an excerpt from my upcoming guidebook, Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy, which I will release exclusively on this site in May: Chapter 2.) We are not who we think we are. . The most...
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John Lennon: Jealous Guy
When I was in the grips of retroactive jealousy, I used to take some comfort in this beloved John Lennon classic: As were many of John’s songs, “Jealous Guy” was intensely personal: all indications...
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Read this: “Another jealous of my girlfriend’s past thread”
I used to spend a lot of time browsing relationship advice forums in the vain hope of finding an “instant cure” for my retroactive jealousy. For reasons I will expand on in a future post, it doesn’t...
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Watch this: “How to stop being jealous and ruining your relationship”
Although this video does not provide much direction in terms of “how to stop being jealous,” it does provide some great insight into the nature of jealousy, the emotional payoff of jealousy, and...
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Let go of control and expectations
The following is an excerpt from my upcoming guidebook, Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy, which I will release exclusively on this site next month: Chapter 8.) Let go. The greater part of human...
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Give love and seek no reward
Continuing on the theme of last week’s post, I thought I might share this beautifully simple take on the meaning of life by the Russian concert pianist Andrei Gavrilov. I came across it a couple of...
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Book excerpt: “Jealousy telegraphs insecurity”
The following is an excerpt from my e-guide to overcoming retroactive jealousy, which I will release exclusively on this site later this week. Please subscribe to updates from my site using the form on...
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AVAILABLE NOW: My e-guide to Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy
The early response to my website has been both humbling, and slightly overwhelming. Today, I am proud to announce that my instructional e-guide for overcoming retroactive jealousy is available for...
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Get over his/her past: You have the cure
If you are a sufferer of retroactive jealousy and you’ve come across this site, chances are good that you have been searching (in vain) for a “cure.” If so, you’ve come to the right place. I’m not...
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3 Reasons Why Your Retroactive Jealousy is Based on a Lie
Over the past couple of weeks, several people have asked me to expand on why, exactly, their retroactive jealousy is based on a lie. Regardless of their particular circumstances, here are the top-3...
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Listen to this: “Still Crazy After All These Years”
As I write about in my new guidebook, music can have a serious impact on how we feel, and how we think. In one of the chapters in Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy, I recommend that you take your...
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“She is not your everything — and if she is, she will soon not be anymore.”
One of the most valuable relationship maxims I have ever come across is the following: She is not your everything — and if she is, she will soon not be anymore. This is aimed specifically at men in...
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You are not alone.
If there is one thing I can say with utmost certainty to any sufferer of retroactive jealousy, it is this: You are not alone. In the few short weeks this site has been active, and my book has been for...
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Read this: Jiddu Krishnamurti on observing emotions
When you are able to cultivate the ability to simply observe a thought or emotion as it arises, and then watch it fade away peacefully, you suddenly become very powerful. As I write in my guidebook,...
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“Everything is amazing, and nobody’s happy.”
As usual, some profound insight from one of the funniest humans on the planet, comedian Louis CK. . A few years ago, upon initially seeing this bit on Louis’ special Hilarious, I immediately drew a...
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Watch this: “Ex-Boyfriend” by Lil’ Dicky [NSFW]
Because it’s Friday and spring is in the air (at least here in Canada) and love is all around us if we are brave enough to choose it, I thought I’d share something fun. Although I will warn sufferers...
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Mailbag: Retroactive jealousy and sexual desire
Recently, I received an email from a reader named Ryan in the UK concerning retroactive jealousy, and reduced libido: As I’m working on my issues my girlfriend has noticed that sometimes when my RJ is...
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Tell me what I can do for you!
I’ve been truly overwhelmed at the response this website, and my guidebook, has received thus far. To date, this site has had visitors from over forty different countries, and people from all over the...
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