If you are a sufferer of retroactive jealousy and you’ve come across this site, chances are good that you have been searching (in vain) for a “cure.” If so, you’ve come to the right place.
I’m not going to offer you an “overnight cure” because there isn’t one. I’m not going to sell you a “miracle formula” because it doesn’t exist either. There is no magic cure or quick fix when it comes to retroactive jealousy. However, worry not: the actual “cure” is something much more exciting and rewarding.
Overcoming retroactive jealousy involves a sincere commitment to challenging your beliefs and insecurities, and growing into the best self that you can be.
If I could sum up “the path” to overcoming retroactive jealousy in one sentence that would be it.
In my conversations with fellow former sufferers of retroactive jealousy, I have found that there is one main characteristic shared by people who have successfully overcome their condition: a sincere dedication to personal growth and development. If you commit to keep working on yourself, challenging your beliefs and insecurities, completing the exercises in my guidebook, and never stop growing into the best self that you can be, I am confident that you too will find success.
As I outline in the book, there are several specific exercises that you can do today to help to alleviate your jealous feelings, and bring fast relief. Some even do produce instantaneous, or “overnight” results. However, overcoming retroactive jealousy mainly involves hard work, soul-searching, unlearning, relearning, a bit of patience, and a lot of good humor. It is not an easy path, and there is no definite “finish line,” but it is a path that is increasingly rewarding and fulfilling the further you travel.
The good news in all of this is that you can stop looking for some external force or factor to provide you with a “cure” for retroactive jealousy because you’ve had it all along. You already have the power to overcome retroactive jealousy — all you need is a little guidance.
If you commit to challenging your beliefs, working on your insecurities, and following the step-by-step program I outline in my guide to overcoming retroactive jealousy, you too can find peace.
