Mailbag: Letting go of “perfection,” and more free books
A reader named Andrew from the USA wrote a very brave and inspiring letter to me detailing his experience with RJ, and his progress: Hi Frank, I wanted to thank you because I truly feel like I’m...
View ArticleA (Very) Brief Introduction to Meditation
I am a firm believer that the quickest route to happiness and peace is to be found in the act of presence; that is, being as present as possible in each and every moment, and bearing witness to the...
View ArticleSomething of Myself: The Proust Questionnaire
For several decades Vanity Fair magazine has been running a feature called “The Proust Questionnaire.” From Wikipedia: At the end of the nineteenth century, when the French writer Marcel Proust was...
View ArticleMailbag: Low self-esteem, Moroccan hash, and retroactive jealousy
The other day I received a very honest letter from a reader named Dave from the USA detailing over a decade of experience with retroactive jealousy, self-esteem issues, Moroccan hash, and more....
View Article5 Reasons Why Retroactive Jealousy is Destroying Your Relationship
If you chose to read this article, I hope you’re ready for some tough love. So, let me tell you: Retroactive jealousy will destroy your relationship. It’s not a question of “maybe” — it will happen,...
View Article“Satellite of Love:” Lou Reed and Retroactive Jealousy
The esteemed American musician and Velvet Underground alumnus Lou Reed passed away recently at the age of 71. Aside from being a founding member of one of the most important rock and roll acts of the...
View ArticleIntroducing Brazen Men: Relationship Advice and Personal Development for Men
Today I’m very excited to let you know about my newest project, a website for men focusing on personal development and relationship advice. I’ve been considering something like this for several months...
View ArticleWhat’s in a name? Pen names, retroactive jealousy, and freedom
As I wrote about recently, I’ve created a new website for men focusing on personal development and relationship advice. In essence, I want to do what I’ve been doing on RetroactiveJealousy.com for the...
View ArticleA Super Easy Way to Block Out Jealous Thoughts
Note: the following is an excerpt from my bestselling guidebook, Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: . As you think, so shall you become. - Bruce Lee IT IS A PAINFUL IRONY of the human condition: we often...
View ArticleHi! My Name is Zachary… Ask Me Anything!
Ladies, gents, gracious peoples of the internet: Greetings from Santiago, Chile! My name is Zachary Stockill. I wrote the bestselling guidebook “Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: A Guide to Getting Over...
View ArticleVIDEO: Get Over Your Partner’s Imaginary Past
Last week I put out a blog post in which I invited you to submit their questions regarding retroactive jealousy, my guidebook, and anything else I could potentially help you with. I didn’t expect a...
View ArticleTop 3 Reasons Why You Should STOP Trolling Online Forums
As I’ve written previously, I believe that ceasing your trolling of online forums for advice can be, and often is, counter-productive if you’re trying to overcome retroactive jealousy: I wrote the book...
View ArticleJealousy, Relationships, and Knowing When to Walk Away
Ready for some harsh truths? Good. 1.) Your current partner is not “the one.” There is no “one” — there are simply lucky people who get to share some time with you on your spin around the sun. Whether...
View ArticleI need YOUR input to build something great… Help ME help YOU!
Big changes are in the works ’round these parts. Lately I’ve gotten a TON of emails from my ORJ insiders mailing list (which you should totally sign up for — check the sidebar to the right to enter...
View ArticleHow to Make 2014 the Best Year of Your Life
Greetings from gorgeous Medellin, Colombia. Dig the Christmas lights above! It’s early January, a time most bloggers reserve for writing inspiring, uplifting, and motivating posts about the power of...
View ArticleAn Interview with Dating Coach Josh Sway on Retroactive Jealousy
Josh Sway is an American dating coach, and author of the e-book Sway Seduction: Master Online Dating. On his website you’ll find a wide range of articles on topics ranging from sex, to online dating,...
View Article“Satellite of Love:” Lou Reed and Retroactive Jealousy
The esteemed American musician and Velvet Underground alumnus Lou Reed passed away recently at the age of 71. Aside from being a founding member of one of the most important rock and roll acts of the...
View ArticleFEBRUARY SPECIAL: Set up a FREE 20 minute call with me!
It’s February, a time for Valentine’s Day, Groundhog Day, and if you live in North America, at least six more weeks of winter. At least according to both Punxsatawney Phil and Wiarton Willie. Bummer....
View ArticleA Serious Conversation about Getting Over Your Partner’s Past — Fast
(Note from Zach: I HIGHLY recommend that you carefully read ALL of this.) I’m hoping you have a few minutes today for a serious one-on-one conversation with me… Don’t worry, this is the good kind. I...
View ArticleGet Over Your Partner’s Past, Supercharge Your Life: Join My New Online...
Get over your partner’s past, begin a thrilling new chapter in your life and relationship, and join a dynamic global community of men and women committed to the same! After writing my bestselling...
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